Suzanne's Take: A Social Commentary
MARY KAY LETOURNEAU
February 13, 1998
I am on the side of Mary Kay LeTourneau. I have some of
the same feelings I had for Karla Faye Tucker, where an outmoded
code of justice is moving events into tragedy.
People fall in love. It's beyond the mind. That's what makes
"Romeo and Juliet" a great play. Here, our Calvinist society
thinks it has a shaping role to play in what otherwise could be a
chapter in an anthology of great love affairs. How odd this
romance is to the rest of us. And that should be the end of it.
Far from being child rape, this "child" is the initiator.
Apparently he is very mature. Aren't we seeing stories these
days about nine-year old college graduates? As we watch the agony that is rippling
among the whole cast of characters, who are we protecting by so
brutally punishing this woman?
Let those
who know better talk to one another. From "two or more" and "ten
brave men" who are spoken of in sacred texts, to an idea of Bucky
Fuller's about "trimtabs" and of Margaret Mead's about "small,
thoughtful groups," it is commonly understood that new patterns
of social behavior birth in small enclaves. It can begin with me
and you.
Echo back.
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FROM: Chris Johnson
1/27/00 |
Suzanne Replies: How's about another angle? Here's a favorite quote that describes the world I'd like to live in: -Nisargadatta- |
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Suzanne Replies: I don't want to argue. I just want to point to other possibilities. Right vs. wrong has its place, but a world run on those lines is a violent one. Better to open ourselves to unifying wholes. Have you gotten on the "official" Mary Kay site? Lots of food for thought there. |
FROM: theo_art_jewelry@mindspring.com 1/30/00
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Suzanne Replies: "I wish I could tell her not everyone wants to crucify her for being a human being." Yes, I like that thought. People who have been through a lot, like you have, can wise others up. Poor Mary Kay. Not smart to do what she did, but the treatment she got for it is from a harsh world. Our justice system is black and white, while Life is all shades, and we would be better served by a healing perspective rather than a criminal one. Hopefully seeing complex beings up so close, as happens now thanks to our news media, will help soften all hearts. For more thinking along these lines of the Nisargadatta quote above, have a listen to my new WebRadio show, "Making Sense of These Times." |
FROM: James Pasko
1/30/00 |
Suzanne Replies:
I think you and I are in the same race. We made all sort of rules that add up to "society," because you cannot run a system with many parts without order. Then, we forget it's not Divine order, but what we imposed. In older times or in primitive cultures, this age thing would not have been an issue. However, since we are where we are, we could safely say these two folks were very foolish to defy the rules by engaging in criminal behavior. But then, what was done was done, and the hand of justice that came down was heartless and horrible in the ways you articulated very well. We need philosopher kings, and we have Clintons, who not only can't see beyond the culture, but use it in ways where they stay free for behavior comparably bad to what gets Mary Kay locked up. |
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